We all seem to have a wrong concept: There should be no suitable or inappropriate people in this world, there are only people in this world who are willing or not to change for each other! If we spend our lives looking for the “right person,” we will never find the “right partner”! What we are looking for is: the person who are willing to change himself for each other! And you are willing to change yourself for the other person! Only when two people are "willing to change themselves" can their marriage be of value and can they grow old together!

我們好像都搞錯一個觀念：這世界上應該沒有合適與不合適的人，這世界上只有：願意不願意為對方改變的人！如果我們一輩子在尋找「合適的人」，我們永遠都找不到「合適的伴侶」！我們要尋找的人是：願意為對方改變自己的人！而且你也願意為對方改變自己！只有兩個人都「願意改變自己」，兩個人的婚姻才有經營的價值，兩個人才能走到白頭！