(Proverbs 22:6) Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. ~ "Parenting" a child is the most troublesome part of many parents, but it is also the most difficult part of being a parent. The most meaningful and mission-oriented part! There are many people who give up the right to be a parent because they know that they can't be a good parent! Parents of our age are indeed quite difficult! I have served single parents before, and single parenting is even harder! Why does the United States have a lot of problems with the proliferation of guns? Why is the social order in the United States getting worse and worse? A lot of people are pretty stupid! Put the guns in gun control laws! Put the peace and order to the police! Put education on the teachers! This is the mistake of headache and treating head and foot pain and treating foot in the United States!
Proverbs tells us:Guideing a child in the right way he should go, and even when he is old, he will not depart from it! And Proverbs tells us how to raise children, the essence of raising children is the right way to go! Many parents don't even know the "right way to walk." I ask: How do they guide their children to walk on the right path? I have to say about the church in America: it's too unrealistic, never down-to-earth! There is no way for the church to lead the congregation in the right way, so how can we expect Christian parents to raise their children in the right way? I know a story, a true story: a Christian male who had 4 children of his own, but eloped with a 15-year-old girl from his daughter's classmate! The girl's parents are divorced and she lives with her mother. The girl met the uncle because she went to church, but the uncle became the girl's lover. The uncle abandoned his family and eloped with the underage girl! This is the truth!
Don't think of Christians as lofty, Christians are sinners just like everyone else, and Christians can be more evil than everyone else! But we don't need to waste time discussing sinners. Since we don't want to be sinners, we don't want our children to be sinners. No one is going to raise their children to be devils! I believe that my thoughts are the same as that of every mother. We are pregnant for ten months, and we have worked so hard to give birth to the child. None of us hope that the child will become a waste garbage who is beaten, smashed, robbed and burned! We don't want our children to spend their whole lives in prison! What is the purpose of having children and raising them? Children are the report card of our life! We want our children to be the best work in our lives! Everyone has to face death, but when we take our last breath, we think about our life~ what's your valuable for this life?
There are many people who use wealth, experience, and achievements to write the chapters of their lives, but mothers, we all know that our chapters are our children! Raising children is not easy! Children are different from cats and dogs! A child has thoughts and action, and a child is an individual! Children need our care when they are young, but as they get older, they start to handle their own affairs independently, and raising cats and dogs is completely different from raising children! Cats and dogs can never handle their own affairs independently, and cats and dogs can't have the ability to take care of people! Children are the work of our lives, and whether a child is good or bad does not only affect parents. The quality of a child may affect the community, affect the young people of that generation, and more likely affect the whole world. If the child has influence, his influence will be. It will be big, so we must understand that raising children is very important!
Why is our modern society more and more chaotic? Because we have kids, but parents don't raise kids at all! Many parents can give birth, but they can't raise or never educating them. As a result, many social problems are caused, and even their own lives are messed up by their children! There are also many couples who simply give up their right to be parents and live their own lives without having children at all! Parenting a child is not about raising a child to be a perfect person, we have to let the child walk on the right path! No need to ask your child to be perfect, because none of us are perfect! But we need to ask the child to have a "correct mind" . When the child has the "correct mind", your child is the most perfect work of your life!
The difficulty of parenting children is that we don't know how to lead our children! Do you have to have a 100-point parent to have a 100-point child? Of course not! No parent in the world can score 100 points! We are all poor parents! But our kids have a chance to get 100 points kids, because our kids may be better than us! Everyone's definition of "excellent" is different, this is whether your child can become 100 points in your heart! Some parents give their children the test that they want to be a great man in history and make the most money in the world... and so on, just think: Is it worth your child's life to waste his own life in order to become 100 points in your heart? The test papers we give to children can be simple or difficult, but the most important thing is to give children a happiness life!
What is a "happiness life"? Many parents will say: I don't have a happiness life myself, how can I give my children a happiness life? We often put the definition of a happiness life on "money"! There is money to be happiness, without money is the most unfortunate life! "Money" is definitely not the criterion for a happiness life! There are many children who just want to go to underdeveloped countries to help those poor communities and children. When they teach the children who can't read to read, they find a sense of achievement in their life, maybe they don't even earn a dollar, Might also have to pay for their own pen and paper for the kids, but they love this kind of work! Just like there are many people who are willing to clean the streets, not because they are stupid, but they prefer to see the smiles of many people walking on clean roads! "Money" can never measure life! Where is the value of life? The value of life is in our own hearts! We all want to see our works are loved by others, but not hate by others.So we hope that we can have children who are loved by others and this is the best achievement in our life!


