Many children grow up in single parent families, they have many complaints, they think they lack a lot of love, even they feel that they are not loved! We need to know that each of us is an independent individual. Many parents will divorce, or many children will become single parents. There are different reasons. Some parents die and children become single parents! We have been emphasizing too much what single-parent families lack? But we don't see God's grace and blessings in single-parent families! This year my eldest daughter is graduating from NYU, and she has completed her studies completely on her own and with scholarships for the past four years, which is the grace of God! The youngest daughter is also very good. Although she doesn't like going to school very much, she is fully capable of living independently! Parents don't need to help their children wrap diapers and push baby strollers all their lives, parents should help their children learn to walk and create a beautiful life of their own!
No parent can accompany a child for life! But how can important children grow up well? How can a child face the low points in life? I have seen many children die young! They died for different reasons! Some are murdered, some commit suicide...There are bound to be hardships and struggles in life, there are bound to be difficulties in life, (1 John 5:4) For whatever is born of God overcome the world: and this is the victory that overcome the world, even our faith. ~God is really really quite faithful! He has always been with us! God has really given me so much grace, I really can't count it! Why do so many people ask me: Why do you believe in God? Why do you have so much faith in God? I can't say: I'm sure of it! I often have weaknesses! I often have moments of unbelief! I often complain about God! But He is always faithful! I must say: I have never been richer than a double income family! And I did have a very, very difficult time financially! My mother often asks me: You can tell us, we can help you! I think: If I choose the most difficult path, I should bear the bitter fruit, and they are all old! How can I ask them to help me? I rarely complain to others, why? Because I think everyone has their own difficulties! When I complain to others, I hope that others will help me; if others are capable, but do not help me, I will be disappointed in human nature. How can others help me when they are incapable? Ane I kust make causing other people to feel guilty, so why bother?
If you ask me: why believe in God? Because of His faithfulness, I must trust Him! I think the most amazing thing in my life~ My car was parked on the side of the road, and someone ran away after being hit by a car. God can help me find the real culprit, and the insurance company fully compensates for the loss! Because I know this is a great grace! I have seen photos of a few people, but the license plate was not photographed at all, and the sound of a loud crash was heard nearby, and it happened that one person photographed the license plate, and he left his contact information! Therefore, we are not the parties, and we cannot deny the feelings of others! You are not me, of course you cannot know why I believe in God! You are not me, and of course you don’t know how many difficulties my life has. Therefore, I have always emphasized: I am me! You are you! Everyone must experience God himself, so that you can feel the truth and power of God! So, I will not tell others: You must believe in God, or you will go to hell! Those who experience God are chosen by God! I can't force unbelievers to become believers. This is called "religious thought kidnapping", and the effect brought out by this will be even worse! To really help others is to let them experience the power of God themselves! The Lunar New Year is coming soon, and I hope that everyone can experience God's grace and power this year! Happy and healthy Year of the Rabbit!